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Read article →Professor · Life Coach · Author · Creator
Md Manjurul
Ahsan
Helping people grow — intellectually, emotionally, and personally.
Research Assistant Professor, University of Oklahoma
Life & Relationship Coach · Science Writer · Content Creator
I work at the intersection of AI research, human connection, and education. Whether you are looking for relationship guidance, science content, or academic knowledge — in English or Bengali — you are in the right place.
60+Publications
69K+Followers
3Books
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About
I am Md Manjurul Ahsan — a Research Assistant Professor at the University of Oklahoma, a life and relationship coach, science writer, and content creator with over 69,000 followers, primarily students and young professionals in Bangladesh.
My work spans two worlds. In the lab, I build AI systems for advanced manufacturing. Outside it, I write and speak about relationships, astrophysics, politics, and the challenges young people face — in both English and Bengali. I believe knowledge should be accessible to everyone, regardless of language or background.
I also guide students pursuing higher education abroad. If you need honest, practical advice — about relationships, career, or life direction — I offer private 1-on-1 sessions.
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Coaching & Books
1-on-1 sessions, books, and video bundles — designed to help you grow in relationships, career, and life. All video content is in Bengali.
Book a Personal Session
Dealing with a relationship challenge, a career decision, or simply need honest guidance? I offer private sessions via video call — in English and Bengali. Purchase the Pro Package to book your session, or send me a message to enquire first.
Video Course Packages
Basic Package
5 videos, approximately 10 hours of content on relationship foundations, communication, and emotional awareness. All in Bengali.
Advanced Package
10 hours of video on deep relationship dynamics, healing, and personal growth — plus one book included. All in Bengali.
Pro Package
15 hours of video, one book, and a private 1-on-1 session with me. After purchase you will be contacted to schedule your session. All in Bengali.
Books
When July Burns
Bengali
Bengali
When July Burns
A powerful collection of writings on emotion, resilience, relationships, and the human experience — written through personal truth and social reality.
Available now — $9.99
The Universe in Motion: From Birth to Beyond
Bengali
Bengali
The Universe in Motion: From Birth to Beyond
An accessible Bengali-language guide to cosmology and astrophysics — from the origin of the universe to black holes and the nature of time.
Available now — $9.99
Physics-Informed Machine Learning
English
English
Physics-Informed Machine Learning
A graduate-level text on integrating physical laws into machine learning systems — covering PINNs, digital twins, and AI-driven manufacturing qualification.
Available now — $29.99
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Videos
Free content on YouTube — relationship advice, astrophysics, machine learning, and higher study guidance. In English and Bengali.
Relationship Advice — Watch the Latest
Honest, practical guidance on relationships, communication, and emotional health. New videos regularly.
New videos in English and Bengali published regularly.
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Blog
Writing on relationships, astrophysics, AI, politics, and life — in English and Bengali.
Black Holes Do Not Suck — They Just Wait
The most misunderstood object in the universe. A black hole does not pull anything in that was not already going to fall.
Read article →PhD in the US: The Honest Guide Nobody Gives You
After helping hundreds of students, I have seen the same mistakes over and over. Here is what actually matters in your application.
Read article →Attachment Styles — And Why Yours Is Not Your Fault
Anxious, avoidant, secure — your attachment style was formed before you could speak. Understanding it is the first step to changing it.
Read article →What Is Machine Learning — Explained Without Jargon
You do not need a mathematics degree to understand machine learning. Here is the simplest honest explanation I can give.
Read article →মহাবিশ্বের শুরু — বিগ ব্যাং কী আসলে?
বিগ ব্যাং মানে বিস্ফোরণ নয়। এটা ছিল মহাকাশ, সময় এবং পদার্থের জন্মের মুহূর্ত।
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Academic Work
I am a Research Assistant Professor at the University of Oklahoma, School of Industrial & Systems Engineering. My lab focuses on AI-driven quality assurance for metal additive manufacturing — with active contracts from AFRL and collaboration with Oak Ridge National Laboratory.
60+ publications · 4,300+ citations · NASA STEM Educator · NIH AHAM Mentor
View full academic profile →AI/ML-Enabled In-Situ Monitoring for Metal Additive Manufacturing
Multi-Agent AI & Digital Twin for Manufacturing Quality Assurance
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Contact
Whether you want to book a coaching session, ask about a book, collaborate on research, or just say hello — reach out. I respond personally.
Sessions available: 1-on-1 coaching in English and Bengali — relationships, career, life direction, and higher study planning. Purchase the Pro Package or send a message to enquire first.